Domestic Violence and Emotional Abuse is one of the hardest things to survive. Just know you can do it! You are free from your abusive, please continue to safety plan.
Change your phone number and get caller ID.
Change your locks and check windows.
Change your work hours and your routes to and from work.
Tell family and friends to be alert.
Get a restraining order.
It’s time to think about you. When was the last time you did something just for you? Think about what could make you happy? What brings you joy?
Read a good book? Get a facial? When was the last time? If you can’t answer, then it’s time you start PAMPERING YOU!
Keys…You are so beautiful, loving and kind. You spend so much of your time focusing on others. Yes, they appreciate it. And you feel good also. I know it’s hard rebuilding yourself after an abusive relationship. The journey is long but we are worth it.
Everyday we should thank God, eat a balanced meal, exercise, drink plenty of water and pray.
It’s also nice to have some me time. If you love and appreciate yourself. spend time with yourself, then you can carry so much more love over to others. Joy and happiness comes from you and no one else. Your family, friends and others may positively affect your mood sometimes.
Others love to be around people that are likable.
1. Think about what you love about yourself?
2. What makes you happy?
3. What brings you joy?
4. Instead of focusing on celebrating once you get that new job, or make your next million, have fun now! Celebrate each day that God gives you breath.
When we stay in an abusive relationships, we suffer and our children suffer the most. Most times we lose us, our purpose and dreams, only to survive. It’s time to get back to finding you! Your life matters!
Finding your purpose, take action. Don’t give up.
“But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you” (Matthew 6:33).
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” (Jeremiah 29:11, NIV).
“And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose” (Romans 8:28).
Living everyday is a struggle for us but we can change that by trusting in God. Once we have that personal relationship, we will begin to love yourself.
When we love us, then we will make better choices. Only then, we will leave that abusive relationship.
Ask yourself these questions to find out and write them down to hold your self accountable. Take action to finding your purpose in life.
If you had one year to live, what would you do or go everyday?
Try something new?
What do you feel deep in your spirit?
What ignites your passion in your soul?
What comes natural for you?
What idea or ideas you can’t let go of?
What can you do for free?
What do you do and you forget about the time?
Once you answer all these questions, you should know your purpose.
God bless and remember Grace girls rock. Share and comment. Thanks for visiting and come again.
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