Domestic violence is a pattern of behavior used to gain power and control over another person. Statistics states 1 in 4 women will experience domestic violence during her lifetime. With that being said, think about how many children that’s experiencing domestic violence in the home.
Children living in a home with domestic abuse is more times likely to be depressed, have anxiety and afraid. They also suffer abuse and neglect 30% to 60%. More than 3 million children witness domestic violence in their homes every year. And the third leading cause of homelessness among families.
Domestic violence is not just a family thing but it’s a community thing. It cost more than $37 billion a year in law enforcement involvement, legal work and medical treatment. This is what I mean- Parents we are responsible for our children. Take our babies to church and learn the ways of Jesus Christ. When our babies grow up with good manners and morals and love God. When you love God, you will love yourself and you will choose good. It might not work this way for everybody but it’s better than doing nothing.
When you are broken mentally and physically you are vulnerable. It’s easier for you to live with domestic violence and abuse. Please think of your children. If you are living with domestic violence get help. It is time to save you and your children. God loves you and you deserve the best.
Signs of Physical Abuse on Children
1. Bruise, burns, cuts, broken bones, scars
2. Acting out at home and school.
3. Shy away
4. Sudden jumping, flinches thinking you are going to get hit.
Signs of Emotional Abuse on Children
1. Attitude and mood changes.
2.Bedwetting and developmental delays
3. Doesn’t bond with abusive parent
5. Passive behavior
6. Rocking or thumbsucking.
Signs of Sexual Abuse on Children
1. Sexually touching other children.
3. Afraid to be alone.
4. Pain, itching and bleeding from private parts.
5. It’s hurts to walk or sit.
Practice safety plan and teach your children word that you would say when you need help from your abuser.
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